Extended Breastfeeding Criticism: How To Respond

Breastfeeding Q&A

Question:

I’ve started to get comments about how my little guy should be weaned soon because he’s turning 18 months and it’s “a little weird at this point.”  I swear not a single person in my life understands anymore. Do you have any ideas how I can respond to the criticism?

How to respond to extended breastfeeding criticism

Answer:

First off, please know you’re not obligated to justify your choices to anyone. But if you feel inclined to respond, here are some ideas…

• "What an odd thing to say out loud"

• "I don't remember asking your opinion on this matter"

• "Isn't it cool we can all make decisions for ourselves about our own personal matters"

• "How I feed my child is not up for discussion"

• "We are doing what's best for us, please refrain from making comments like this is the future"

• “I understand that extended breastfeeding might seem unusual to some, but the World Health Organization recommends breastfeeding for up to two years and beyond, if both the mother and child desire. It's a personal choice that should be respected."

Stay calm and firm in your response. Your confidence in your decision can often disarm critics and show that you've thoughtfully considered your options.

Remember, not a single person’s opinion matters but you and your baby. Don’t let anyone project their feelings onto your breastfeeding journey.

PRO-TIP:  Seek support: Surround yourself with people who support your decision and understand the benefits of extended breastfeeding. Connecting with other breastfeeding mothers or joining online support groups can provide encouragement and validation.  Find a La Leche League meeting near you.

Breastfeeding is a personal journey, and what matters most is that you and your child are happy and healthy.